When do you become a team? A couple? When do you become an adult?

There can be defining moments, or it can be such a seamless transition that you do not remember when it happened, but when you realized it had happened. For you it can be the first time holding hands, but for your love it would be that first afternoon when you talked together for three hours straight, never feeling that time was passing.

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When did you first lose someone?

When did you realize that one day you would die?

When did your world collapse?

The most painful moments are surreal because the world should stop. The skies should open and rain down on everything just like tears are running down your chin, despite your best efforts. Nobody should be able to smile, everything should be subdued, or giving you space and privacy, mourning with you. The world should stop, but it doesn’t. The world doesn’t care, but some people do.