Everything is relative, each has a perception of things and each reacts differently to them. Reality and possibilities are very complex. Reality means nothing more than an electric choc you get when photons enter in your eyes and create an image in your brain. Possibilities you can get since the moment you are in your mothers belly are so big that you can be everything in your coming life. Even a God Don't complain about your unluck or because you were in the wrong place at the wrong moment. Everything can be done with willpower and effort.